When my boyfriend broke up with tears in his eyes, he said to Miss Lian that no matter what happens after you, you should still remember to call me first. Miss Lian was almost moved to tears, but the thought that he cheated on me quickly stopped and changed to a indifferent expression. Thank you, don’t worry about my hands and feet. Who are you, my friend?
But it’s just a cruel talk. Miss Lian called her ex-boyfriend five times a month after we broke up. Once, she couldn’t get a car rental and asked him to pick her up. Once, she came to the supermarket to help her buy sanitary napkins because of menstrual pain. Once, she was invited to stop her drinking. Once, the room was broken and asked what to do. Once, a gay man came to visit her and wanted him to live in her ex-boyfriend’s house. Almost every week, her ex-boyfriend would get a message from her. Her best friend said to her, Don’t bother others so much. When we break up, we’ll be clean and profitable, and other things will be fine. When we are together, Miss Lian feels greatly wronged, I have to find something for him all the time, otherwise he will, I don’t care, he doesn’t pay attention to his breakup. I still talk a lot a week, and maybe he is still too few.
Her ex-boyfriend did everything well except cheating, but she didn’t expect that the situation would be over in less than two months.
One day, she called him and said that I was going to the hospital for a day’s examination, and it was not good for me to take medicine for diarrhea. Please go with me. She thought it was such a human life. It was on the weekend, and he would definitely promise. But at the other end of the sentence, he simply said that you would go for such a small thing. My class was tired and rested at home on the weekend. Miss Eyre suddenly flew into a rage. What is a small thing to go to the hospital? I’m telling you, come and pick me up now, otherwise we will never contact again. Then my ex-boyfriend didn’t pick her
On that day, Miss Lian went to the hospital and finished the examination alone. The hospital was a lonely place. When she saw that every patient was surrounded by a group of people who took care of his relatives, her heart was in pain. She thought that one day these people were separated because of various reasons. Do they still remember that holding hands and feeling that everyone broke up hand in hand is a moment? It is really beyond imagination.
Sometimes I also think that two people in the vast sea of people have experienced many people and many things, and they have come together by some chance. This encounter alone should be worthy of life to cherish. If we finally hold hands for a lifetime, we should also remember that when we met, we were warm, surprised and grateful. Some people helped you, and we should remember it all our lives. But what people loved you and loved your life very much, and once we missed it, we will forget it.
Maybe it’s all because love is nothing but affection and friendship. It’s private and full of occupation. People haven’t been able to give it a little more to this person, and that person is less to ensure that everyone can get a little. We always say that love will eventually become affection, but it used to be that this kind of love has been in love for decades after two people got married, but people have become relatives, and those who separated halfway have even disappeared. Once it is separated, you can’t expect the other party to hide some feelings.
Miss Lian doesn’t understand why her ex-boyfriend is so heartless for three years, but she doesn’t know that the waves of life will roll two people forward in parallel, and the two tracks have crossed. Maybe she is doing well, although she is reluctant to part with her ex-boyfriend, he terminated his connection at the thought of cheating on him, while some people still want to renew doomed love because they can’t let go.
On the hundredth day after the breakup, Mr. Wen Wen sent a carefully worded message to his ex-girlfriend in the early hours of the morning. Well, he stayed up all night for fear of missing her reply. However, when the sun was high, he still didn’t ring. He summoned up his courage and called her again. He and she kept changing their numbers. I couldn’t help but say that she hadn’t seen the message. My friend said that he still wanted him to find her best friend’s mobile phone number. She said that her number had never changed. What did he ask? No one answered there. My friend finally said something, and she had
Mr. Wen ran to his ex-girlfriend’s house and found her. He said bluntly, let’s be all right. His ex-girlfriend will give him a warm hug in surprise, because when they broke up, they were also in a moment of anger, and there was no substantive problem. When they were separated as usual, they would be better than newlyweds, but their ex-girlfriend picked up her clothes at the window and didn’t talk, as if she didn’t hear anything. She was still busy with her own affairs calmly.
Mr. Wen walked over from behind and hugged her like a coquette. It’s been a long time since we agreed, and it should be over. You don’t know how much I miss you. It took me so long to realize how much I love you. I swear I will be nice to you for a generation. Let’s just do it. My ex-girlfriend struggled to escape from his arms and said at the top of her lungs that you and I are your toys. Don’t forget that people are feelings. When you said you broke up, you considered my feelings. It took me so long to finally get out of this relationship. Now you let me go back. I’m Mr. Wen still wants to win him over. It was almost midnight before telling her in tears. She spent several months on buying chestnuts and carefully preparing her birthday. So many romantic moments are not enough. The pain caused by breaking up is enough, but it can’t be enough for her ex-girlfriend. It was a love story before, and now it’s nagging about knocking on the door and saying that you are going.
Later, Mr. Wen scolded everyone about how heartless his ex-girlfriend was. Before, he spoiled her to the sky. Two people loved her dearly. Now, even if he fell to his knees, she wouldn’t be happy again. He didn’t know if his ex-girlfriend was so unreasonable, but his feelings could not be decided. He refused to break up again and again. It was a healing and I was much bigger than love.
This is the fact that once they break up, two people can never go back to the past. The metaphor mirror is broken, even if it is well repaired, the crack is still there, while love is once broken, and even the repair may be gone. Before breaking up, it is heaven, and after breaking up, it is hell. Once it is crossed, it is two worlds. Many mistakes can be recovered, but emotional wounds are the most invisible and the most difficult to heal.
I hope that when time first loves the world, when you and I don’t love it, the world will be others.
A kind of romance is called cold romance.
Hot romance is men’s venue, cold romance is women’s galloping on the battlefield.
In love, there are two kinds of men in women’s eyes. One is that they know romantic love words and coax women into blushing cheeks and bumping into fawns. This kind of man is always easy to find that it can make people feel warmer in ordinary life than saying that a woman asks him where we are going on our honeymoon. He looks at you affectionately and says that a fool is in your heart, of course. A girl can stand this sugar-coated cannonball and get a woman’s heart in one sentence.
Looking around, those boys who are surrounded by girls are not handsome, but they have no money, but they must be affectionate. But this kind of hot romance is usually dominated by men, and it is good to accept it. This also explains to some extent that such men are welcome because women do nothing but listen. There is no better skill than letting women feel warm-hearted and warm-hearted.
Hot romance is relatively cold romance. This kind of man is generally out of date, far from keeping pace with modern people’s personality. They can’t talk about love, let alone send a flower to buy a gift. This kind of man has a low possibility of success in falling in love. Most of the time, he can match various conditions through blind date.
But in fact, men are all romantic, but it’s obviously hard to find out. This kind of men belong to people who hide romance and don’t use it to dry. They want this kind of men to live together sweetly, and the dominant factor is women. Women must have a heart that is good at discovering and feeling, and they must be able to feel it from his daily business instead of listening to his romance. Compared with women, of course, they have to find romance by themselves without this cover-up, but women have a pair of eyes, so this cold romance is enough to kill them.
Miss Cha, my best friend, is such a woman who is in cold romance but can always enjoy hot romance. Her husband is a mechanical engineer, so he talks less when he comes. He is even more dull. We have never heard him say a sweet word to Miss Cha, nor have we seen them show their love at a friend’s dinner. These two people have only been married for more than two years, but when they are in front of everyone, they look like an old couple, and they feel a little lifeless. But Miss Cha privately says that her husband is not generally romantic, which surprises us severely.
Early husband’s class is much earlier than her, and when she is still sleeping, he will get up with the light so that she doesn’t feel uncomfortable with her eyes. He will gently tell her that Xiao Cha has to close her eyes and turn off the light. It is common for Xiao Cha to fall to the ground when she sleeps. In winter, her husband has to go to the bedroom to wrap her up before leaving Xiao Cha, and she always feels hungry at eleven or twelve o’clock. Whether her husband is asleep or not, he will get up at once and make fried eggs for her. In summer, he will ask Xiao Cha to snore for a second, even though mosquitoes are holding mosquito swatter for a second
When Xiaocha said these things, I suddenly realized that these are not trivial things that her husband does well, but Xiaocha is able to feel love and appreciate the romance of men in these details. This is the root of her happiness in life. In other words, she has created romance for herself, but this kind of rhetoric and cold romance can gradually bloom in a long life.
Women love romance, but most women love their ears to sound romantic, which is due to a woman’s ability. Women can feel the freshest passion in the simplest life. Women always complain that men are not romantic and have no happiness, but some of them complain because they are used to accepting, but they rarely think of creating and discovering that many times women’s happiness comes not from men’s giving, but from their own observation.
There is no such thing as romantic feelings and romantic women. If women want to be warm for a long time, they must create men themselves. It is their business to give or not. It is their business that women cannot feel it.
People who regard love as a battlefield have no good chance.
You care about gains and losses everywhere, and the world is your enemy
Some women seem to be born to fight, and they have a kind of drive to win and do things. If they are at work, they must compare themselves with their colleagues, or their salaries are higher or their positions are higher. On the contrary, they have to have a little advantage over each other before they can have a game in life. If you take annual leave in Taiwan Province, I must go abroad, even in Vietnam, and I must look higher than you. When their hearts are always in a state of tension, you are very worried about whether their hearts can stand it, but they are often willing to live a really good life with this spirit. To outsiders, they are rare.
So these women who love victory naturally bring this habit into love. However, this kind of love does not require a battle, and your auxiliary armed forces may be defeated step by step.
Miss anthomaniac is a very ordinary girl, and she looks a little ugly. No one will turn her head in the crowd, but she is absolutely appearance-oriented, especially for men who look like Bo Huang. Even if they meet her in the street, they will laugh at him thousands of times. If men look like Daniel Wu, she will imagine herself as Lin Chi-ling in a second, and then he will flirt with her. One day, she met such a tall, handsome and gentle colleague from Daniel Wu in the restaurant at lunch. Knowing that she loved this bite, she encouraged her to say that she was an anthomaniac and asked for words. It would be a pity to miss it so handsomely. Of course, Miss anthomaniac couldn’t stand this kind of agitation, so the former worker praised her on the pretext that she was going to arrive smoothly, and at the same time, she didn’t forget to make a few sarcastic remarks. Only when she got to the words could it be considered that he was the real thing.
It’s a few jokes, but it’s true that Miss Hua Chi has been fooled here. Perhaps it’s because of her average appearance that she has always been humble in front of colleagues with flowers and flowers. Although she has now achieved the position of deputy secretary in the business department, she is one of the few single women left in the company. If she wants to catch this handsome guy, her life will be completely turned over.
With her belief that she won’t stop until she wins, the two men came together smoothly before two months. The next day, she took the man to the company and announced it in front of her colleagues, just like announcing an executive order.
After the dream is realized, life is not so glamorous. Generally, the life of the two people becomes difficult after the publicity of Miss anthomaniac. Gradually, men keep asking her for money, not borrowing money. After eating together, men will say that I forgot to bring my money, and the car needs gas, or I can’t go back. Miss anthomaniac gave her hundreds of dollars, and he gave her back a kiss. Miss anthomaniac didn’t buy anything. The man pointed to a suit and said that it was missing. If you wear it on me, you can throw Tony Leung Chiu Wai away. Let’s go a few blocks, and then we’ve been praising miss anthomaniac while touching her. I’m sorry to say that I’m so excited to try to say that I don’t want to buy it. He hugged miss anthomaniac and said thank you, dear. Even if you gave me a birthday present, I’m so impressed. Miss anthomaniac paid a few hundred dollars with her two thousand dollars before he angrily took some money from his bag to add it unhappily.
A fool can see that a man’s enthusiasm for her money is far greater than that of her prodigy. Of course, she can see it, but she thinks I can always cure him. The reality is that once she refuses her boyfriend to ask for money for various excuses, she will definitely disappear, so that she can’t hear from him for a few days or even a week until she leaves a message for him. It’s my fault that money should be common for two people to fall in love. It’s my fault that my boyfriend is cheekily in front of her the next day.
When the money can’t turn around, miss anthomaniac will go to her best friend to borrow her best friend to persuade her that this man is eating soft rice. Now, what will happen after you break up quickly? Maybe, I always feel that he is unreliable. Miss anthomaniac said with a firm face, how can I give up? His fault is that I didn’t discipline well. If I fail, I will give up now. I will look down on my lover and solve the problem now. Now he leads me, and one day I will lead him.
It’s right for girlfriends to worry. In a few months, Miss anthomaniac found a man. Another woman is very much in love with her. The man doesn’t hide that you can’t stand it. We can break up, but a woman like you should never find a man like me again. Speaking of this, women can’t stand it, but Miss anthomaniac has been aroused. Well, if you say I’m ugly, I’ll let you polish your eyes and see if I don’t want you to say you’re handsome. All women rob me, right? I’ll let you taste it. No one wants to taste
Then the battle started, although Miss anthomaniac unilaterally carried out it, but it was also full of smoke. She tried every means to find the woman in the photo, exaggerating that the man was not a woman and didn’t believe her. She found several photos of women, and the photos of men PS were together with evidence to find the woman again. How can a woman stand these without looking at them and cry for a man to break up? Miss anthomaniac won, and it was a complete victory. She told the man that you were a girlfriend, and I would break up a new woman for you. I would find her and let her leave you.
The man who eats soft rice obediently returned to Miss Hua Chi’s side, instead of looking for another woman, he regarded her as a harbor to continue after eating and drinking. Miss Hua Chi felt that even if the other party was handsome enough, the man was defeated by her.
Until one day, the man disappeared after asking for a large sum of money. Miss anthomaniac searched all over the city, but there was still no sign of his friends. At most, he said that one woman eloped with another woman’s money. This kind of bottomless line can also be done in love rat. Miss anthomaniac will collapse, but she didn’t go to the man’s hometown to find his parents. The friend thought that her line was even more bottomless, so she advised her to forget it. Involve your parents. Besides, if you had let go earlier, wouldn’t these things have happened? Miss anthomaniac said proudly with a winning expression, I can’t believe he won’t come back until this is over. I’m waiting for him to give me a breath, so I must make him bow down and confess to me.
Two years have passed, and Miss Hua Chi is still waiting for her opponent. Now she is constantly practicing her martial arts, and she has thought of several possible ways for the other party to write a sunflower treasure book. Someone asked her what if he doesn’t come back for a generation. She said, I don’t believe that he will not come back when his parents die. His parents are only in their sixties and have to wait for ten or twenty years before they can die, but girl, you were already in your forties at that time.
In love, too many women are happy when they take a breath and treat a man as an enemy and knock him down. I have also heard a story about a woman who posted a piece of paper on the wall to indicate that every time a man quarrels with a man, he draws a fork on the face. If a woman wins, she draws a smiling face on the face. If there are too many forks on the face, she will seize every opportunity. He will make a noise until she wins. Even if two people are going to divorce, she will not forget to draw a smiling face.
There are too many enemies to face in life. If you want to make enemies in the closest two sexes, how tired it will be for lovers to care about gains and losses. What’s the difference between ordinary people getting along?
I’ve heard too many women complain to men about who wins and who loses. I’m afraid that lovers can really become enemies when I face them with a war mentality. In the end, men are often not so good. Women are exhausted and bitter.
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